90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Darcey Silva has shown that she is worried if Tom Brooks can give her his heart, so in the end she won him and stayed together – or did the 3-pair split up?
The third season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days premiered in early August and viewers again met Darcey, a 44-year-old from Middletown, CT, who previously played with her now in the second season of Before the 90 Days ex friend, Jesse Meester from Amsterdam.
Darcey and Jesse had a poisonous relationship that was on and off because of constant bickering and arguing, but the mother of two told cameras that she would never allow a man to control her or be mean to her again.
Darcey claimed that she was all over Jesse and moved with a man who she thought was more of a catch and treated her much better.
That man was Tom, a 39-year-old distributor for a sports fitness brand from the UK.
In the premiere of 90 Day Fiance: for the third season of 90 Days, Darcey revealed that she went out with the handsome “jet-setter type” after being connected to him on Facebook four years ago.
The couple had actually planned to meet four years ago, but then Darcey met Jesse and decided to pursue a relationship with him instead. Tom was therefore pushed to the bottom, but now he is Darcey’s priority.
Darcey insisted that she was always loyal to Jesse, but occasionally wondered what Tom had in mind. It was finally time to go through that.
Darcey bragged about how Tom was kind and supportive, and she said their relationship flourished over time as they talked and got to know each other better over the phone and video chat.
Darcey grumbled about being in love again, and she was convinced that this time it would be different, because her dynamism with Tom was healthy and positive.
“With Jesse it felt like a false love, but I feel that Tom is the right one for me,” Darcey told the cameras.
However, Darcey’s twin sister Stacey was concerned that Darcey would take things too quickly and hurt herself. She accused Darcey of having unrealistic expectations and Tom of not being ready to settle down, but Darcey just wanted everyone to be happy for her.
Darcey said she even had a beautiful ring to prove that Tom cared for her, and she wore it on her left hand. (Jesse would have blasted her on social media because it was a fake engagement ring).
However, there were red flags that perhaps Darcey ignored. Tom didn’t want to pick her up at the airport because she hadn’t had time to freshen up, and he flirted with Darcey’s friend on FaceTime when the girls started drinking in the United States.
Darcey wondered how Tom acted when she wasn’t there, but she knew she had to be confident and not insecure.
“I wouldn’t meet him if I didn’t think he was ready to settle down … but I took advantage of it with Jesse and I don’t want this to happen again,” Darcey said in a confessional.
She later said, “I hope Tom is who he says he is. I will guard my heart a little, but at the same time it is open to the real deal.”
When Darcey arrived at the airport in London, she was picked up by a driver and it took 45 minutes to get ready in a bathroom. She changed clothes, showered herself in perfume and chose a sexy black outfit – including a Gucci romper and a long jacket – with thigh-high boots.
Fans then learned more about Tom, who apparently used to live the bachelor lifestyle and have many women.
But Tom claimed that he wanted to settle down and build a relationship along the bedroom, which was apparently unknown territory to him.
Tom said Darcey was romantic and could put a smile on his face in the darkest days. He thought Darcey was an extremely attractive woman and said he couldn’t keep her eyes off her.
Tom apparently was a shoulder for Darcey to cry after her relationship with Jesse failed, and Tom realized at the time that he really needed to take care of Darcey because he was willing to listen to her problems.
As a result, Tom did not want to treat Darcey as a one-night stand, so he booked a separate room for her in a hotel where she would spend her first night in London.
Tom’s sister Emma then revealed that Tom had walls because he had been seriously injured before and he didn’t seem ready to settle down.
Tom admitted to his sister Emma that Darcey loved him, but it is difficult to say anything back. Tom would not even acknowledge that Darcey was his girlfriend and said they were just an “item” and “more than friends.”
“I am not really at the stage of thinking where I am going to settle down, get married, have children and move to her country or move here. I am at the point where I meet someone I have been really good friends and I am going see where it goes, “Tom told Emma.
Tom said that Darcey lived in “a little fantasy” when it comes to romance and he didn’t want to rush things.
“I want to take my time, and I hope she won’t be upset,” said Tom in a confessional.
Darcey and Tom finally met in a restaurant and he thought she looked even better than her pictures.
Darcey admitted that Tom “looked a little different” than his photos, but she was more interested in what he had to offer on the inside than on the outside.
Tom wasn’t sure if Darcey thought it was great to see him in person for the first time, but she assured him he was even better than what she had expected.
Darcey said Tom wasn’t exactly fit “like a gym boy,” but that’s not really what she wanted. She said he had the “it factor” with his handsome appearance and good style.
But once Tom had told the news that Darcey had her own room, she was certainly surprised. After having known each other for four years and flirting over the phone, she couldn’t believe Tom didn’t want to spend the night with her.
“Darcey is coming very strong,” Tom told the cameras.
However, Tom said that he treated Darcey with respect and that she could decide whether to invite him into her room to spend the night.
Darcey appreciated the fact that Tom behaved like a gentleman, but she also wanted to feel that Tom really loved her – and she wasn’t sure. Darcey thought their relationship was on a different level and they might not have been on the same page.
After dinner Tom took Darcey to her Air BnB and she insisted that their chemistry was there.
When the couple arrived at the Air BnB, Darcey couldn’t believe how beautiful the room was. Tom told Darcey that she was beautiful, funny, attractive and had chosen the wrong men. That said, she broke into tears.
Darcey said she felt stronger than ever, but never wanted a man to “flap” her again. Darcey cried how nice it was to have Tom push her and pull her chair out during dinner.
“I hope you don’t feel that way when I do something fun,” Tom Darcey said in a rather surprising response.
He then told the cameras that Darcey is “a very emotional person.”
“It’s something I’m not used to. It’s something that I don’t find particularly attractive. It’s supposed to be a first-date scenario; it’s supposed to be fun,” Tom told the cameras.
Tom said Darcey wore her heart on her sleeve, which was different for him. But Darcey felt close to him and believed that she could open up to him everywhere.
Darcey told Tom that she was uncomfortable sleeping alone, and then she started crying again. Tom therefore agreed that he would cuddle Darcey and spend the night with her. He felt that he was “watching out.”
“If it continues like this, it may not be the romantic getaway that I thought it would be,” Tom told the cameras.
When he brought a few drinks to share with Darcey, she already fell asleep in his bed.
When Darcey and Tom woke up together, she said they had just settled in and fell asleep together. But Tom had a different story about how the night went.
Tom said that Darcey had been drinking too much and was snoring in her sleep. Moreover, he accused her of accidentally slapping him in the face at night, causing his nose to bleed. Tom found Darcey that night “difficult to deal with.”
Darcey was a little ashamed, but at the same time he was happy that Tom had put her to bed safely and healthily.
Tom then planned a beautiful day for Darcey and himself, hoping that they could start fresh and have a better day together. They took a romantic boat trip together and Darcey felt she was in a fairy tale. She loved to see his side of the world.
Darcey said she could see herself moving to England and wept happy tears as a result, but Tom begged her playfully not to cry anymore.
With a glass of champagne, Darcey then asked Tom where they were in their relationship. She felt they had been dating for four years, but Tom said this was only their second date. He would not confirm that they were even exclusive to Darcey.
“I have seen other women. But I told them I would not see them again,” Tom said in a confessional. “I want to see where this goes with Darcey. I want to see if this love affair and romance, which it could be, could become something more in the long run.”
Darcey admitted it was “painful to hear” that Tom had seen other women until a week before her arrival. Tom suggested they were on trial and then Darcey acknowledged that she had accepted “too much, too quickly.”
Darcey later asked Tom to change their original plans to sail on a 60-foot yacht in Gran Canaria instead of traveling to Albania, where Stacey was staying with her boyfriend.
Darcey wanted to hear from Stacey that Tom was the right man for her, and so reluctantly but ultimately obliged.
After the couple had played cricket together, Darcey said she was “ready for some passion.” But Tom didn’t seem ready. Darcey therefore began to feel insecure and wondered if she should withdraw.
Darcey admitted that she ‘fell in love’ with Tom, but something was ‘a bit wrong’. She knew he cared for her because he had agreed to go to Albania, but Darcey was afraid that Tom “was holding something.”
Tom was more reserved in his behavior than Darcey and wondered if Darcey’s exaggerated words were sincere and genuine. He was not used to women being so open and vulnerable, and so he almost seemed annoyed. Darcey was so grateful and enthusiastic about everything he did for her.
“Part of me is worried that sexual chemistry may not be there, but I hope there will be fireworks. I mean, I just want to feel his passion. I’m so ready for that,” Darcey said in a confessional.
In the last episode, Darcey said that she and Tom had finally made love.
The couple agreed that the night was romantic, and Darcey noted that it was “eternal,” and she was happy that they had finally “closed the deal.”
Tom was happy that the couple had waited to be intimate and he couldn’t wait to see where their relationship led.
Darcey said the night pushed them 10 steps in the right direction and it was “such a relief.” She finally felt they were on “the same page.”
While shopping in the city, the couple walked past a jewelry store and Darcey pointed out that she likes white diamonds. Tom noted that Darcey put a lot of pressure on engagement and getting married, but he wanted to take his time with the relationship to make sure she is the only one.
Tom simply didn’t want to rush anything and he warned Darcey that he would not fall on one knee “now.” Darcey seemed to understand, but she told the cameras that maybe she could change her mind because Tom seemed to fall for her.
Tom then brought Darcey to a club, where she met some girls who happened to be Tom’s good friends. However, had dated three or four months with one of the women named Roucelle.
Darcey thought it was “a bit strange” that he had invited an ex-girlfriend to join them, but Darcey wanted to be nice and hoped his friends would accept her.
Tom told the cameras that Roucelle didn’t really have a filter, so he didn’t know what to expect or how the night would go. Tom wouldn’t even tell his friends that he and Darcey were exclusive or boyfriend / girlfriend.
Roucelle admitted that Tom was “sometimes quite disconnected with his emotions” during the meeting. She warned Darcey that Tom tended to disappear and close himself.
Darcey told Roucelle that she wanted to dig deeper and make more connection, but Roucelle pointed out that this would be difficult.
Tom admitted that he had walls and was guarded because he had been engaged twice before, and both times the women left him.
“Maybe I can’t commit because of the way things used to be,” said Tom in a confessional.
Roucelle thought Darcey seemed “very nice,” but she told Tom she couldn’t imagine them together if Darcey left the table to go to the bathroom.
Tom could not admit that he was in love and Roucelle insisted that Tom was not “emotionally capable” of feeling or embracing his emotions.
So did Tom end up falling for Darcey?
A season preview for a future episode showed Darcey that she loved Tom when he was standing next to her, but he didn’t answer.
However, Darcey said she was still in a relationship with Tom and that they were happy during an early August interview with Newsweek.
“We are very good. We are very happy. Things have been great and some people can see it that way and some people can see it in a different way,” Darcey said.
“You will have to go through the journey with us.”
Darcey added in her interview that Tom is “a great guy” and “a great guy”.
“We have a really deep bond and a lot in common … I love his voice. It’s very sexy, very James Bond,” she said.
Darcey also explained that it is a good thing that Tom is closer to her own age than Jesse when they went out.
“It was something that I had to explore, because maybe he was the one, so I decided to do that trip again. I don’t regret it.”
But Darcey’s social media currently provide few indications that she and Tom are still dating.
Darcey had posted some pictures of Tom in the last two months, but they have all been deleted since then!
On September 4, Darcey posted a picture of Tom and wrote it: “Living legend! With my heart wide open and all love. My rock! Perfect gentleman with a heart of gold!”
And in mid-August, Darcey shared a photo on Instagram of Tom who took a selfie and enjoyed his handsome 45-degree appearance.
“Keep an eye on the price,” she wrote.
Darcey also deleted a photo she had from Tom’s dating app profile that she had endorsed with a heart.
There are also no signs that Darcey has left the United States since January when she published a close-up photo of Tom who wore her and her designer boots on a cobbled street while visiting the United Kingdom.
“Getting carried away in London,” Darcey wrote the image that did not reveal Tom’s face at the time.