Last night’s 90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days episode was telling to say the least. I think none of these people ever heard the saying, “If someone shows you who they are, believe them.” I think all pairs were shown a hand, it’s up to them if they play it. For some it may be time to run as far as possible. But we know that these are the lives of the desperate and delusional, there is no way they can do something that seems rational.
Avery teaches Omar’s expectations as his wife. I’m sure she hasn’t even begun on the surface of how her life is going to change. I hope she realizes that she cannot arm her husband like she does her mother. Benjamin sees a new side of Akinyi. Rebecca begins to distrust Zied’s intentions. Let’s dive into these murky waters and get into the 90 Day Fiance Before The 90 Days summary!
Avery Mills and Omar Albakour
After Avery has revealed her plans to move to Syria, her mother has a complete collapse. Avery has no idea what she is registering for and seems to care nothing. Who wants to live voluntarily in a war zone? Omar tries to convince Teri that the region in which he lives is safe. Teri decides to let the newlyweds concentrate on their wedding night. She promises to do everything in her power to bring Omar to the US. Avery is completely delusional and unaware of the reasons why her mother is worried. The happy couple leaves for their first night together in their hotel. Avery is excited to finally drop her hair, literally.
Apparently Avery had a great time to de-virginize her husband on their wedding night. While she enjoys the day together, Avery gets her first taste of what her marriage will look like. Omar is extremely conservative and does not think his wife should argue with him. If she tells him that she likes to dance in public, he tells her that this should stop. Good luck, Avery! She will soon find out that her marriage is not a romantic comedy.
Angela Deem and Michael Ilesanmi
After a visit to Michael Ilesanmi‘s mother. Angela Deem wants to discuss the idea that he will have a baby with another woman. Although the practice is common in Nigeria, Angela would kill him before agreeing to cheat on her. She fears that she will waste her time in their relationship if it depends on having a child. Chili, you can’t make this a success. Let’s just keep it, the chances of her having a baby naturally are small to no one. Second, can the world handle a baby Angela? I can imagine a toddler who screams, growls and beats Michael. Michael, are you sure this is really what you want for your life? Blink twice if you need help!
Angela and Michael go to the fertility clinic to find out what their chances are of having a baby. I could have saved them a visit and a bill. Although the doctor finds one egg, they will have to investigate other options to become pregnant. Angela already knew that her chances of getting pregnant were extremely low. She has already asked her daughter to be an egg donor or a surrogate.
Akinyi Obala and Benjamin Taylor
Benjamin is finally able to escape Akinyi’s brother home, now that he has the blessing of everyone. He can now have some privacy and peace in the apartment for which he has paid since his arrival. Akinyi spends a week with him to get to know each other before they get married. Akinyi is clearly not the child of the innocent preacher, Benjamin thought. She is irritated that he doesn’t want to do anything that will tempt them to have sex. SMH … I would think Benji was a virgin the way he sweats when Akinyi talked about sex … if he didn’t have a son.
Akinyi takes Benjamin to the zoo to enjoy the day together. It becomes uncomfortable when Benjamin talks about introducing Akinyi to his son as his stepmother. She admits that she only wants to be a friend, not a mother figure. I think this huge red flag has just crossed Benjamin’s head. He hopes to convince her otherwise and to implement the changes she will encounter as his wife. Akinyi is a 26-year-old woman, but often speaks and thinks in a childish way. Benjamin, you may want to think long and hard before you spend the little money you have to make this woman your wife.
After his conversation with Akinyi, Benjamin has doubts about his son. The red flags continue to fly during dinner. She immediately orders a drink and behaves very strangely all night. As she swallows her margarita, she begs the waiter for more drinks. Benjamin is eliminated by her tipsy state and quickly denies her request. He had the impression that Akinyi rarely drinks. Now he is afraid that she would drink while his son is at home. Okay, Benjamin, that’s quite a jump. Yes, she is drunk and makes fun of herself, but that doesn’t mean she would just become a complete drunk.
Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks
The bobble heads twins and their men go to the club for the night. It is early and Darcey Silva is already on the way for a complete outage. She spends more time comparing relationships than spending time with Tom Brooks. She even tries to manipulate him to tell her that he loves her to stop a tantrum. The shit show night gets worse when Tom Stacey’s side chooses about Darcey’s behavior. She went into a big mess in 5 … 4 … .3 … 2 … 1.
Darcey Silva rushes to the bathroom while Stacey tries to explain Tom’s behavior to her sister. When she returns, everyone tries to code her so that she does not continue to create a scene. Well, it’s too late for that! Darcey has become a complete train wreck before our eyes. Tom refuses to tell her that he loves her just to validate her. This woman is the model of pathetic. It is hard to believe that she has children who are old enough to see their mother embarrass their entire family on national television. Darcey needs to find a therapist, not a husband.
TIMOTHY AND JENIFFER
Okay, what’s wrong with Timothy? He actually had a hot woman in his bed who wanted to have s.x with him, but he chose to go to bed instead. What??? I’m sorry, but I couldn’t handle this type of man. I was originally shocked that Jeniffer always called him a wimp in every episode. Now I am starting to think that he would ride even the nicest person to say that to him. Which woman wants to reassure a man that she won’t hurt him every day ??
Timothy and Jeniffer go to a national park and he is nagging all the time. Ughhhh … girl, is this the best American man you could find? Jeniffer becomes frustrated when she realizes that Timothy is not going to enjoy their day together. She even calls him a ‘kitty’ because he is afraid of heights and refuses to take a ride. Timothy is completely closed off when he feels that Jeniffer does not respect him. Can’t these two see that they are the furthest from a race?
Jeniffer has had enough of Timothy’s negative attitude. He actually complains about having to do things outside instead of ‘normal’ few things. Huh ?? Jeniffer reminds him when she tried to stay inside and become intimate that he shut himself off and went to sleep. Jeniffer reduce your losses and try again. This guy isn’t worth the trouble or pretends you like him.
Zied Hakimi and Rebecca Parrot
Rebecca still has doubts about her Tunisian boys’ toys, Zied. Her suspicions are very alert when he asks her for 500 dinar, which is about $ 200 US dollars. He tells her that he wants to buy a gift for his sister, whom he later meets. I don’t know what kind of gift he buys his “sister” that would cost so much. If I were Rebecca, the answer would have been no. The last time she and the sister met, she was less than friendly.
Rebecca is still fuming that Zied asked her for a large sum of money. Meanwhile, he meets his sister to use that money to buy an engagement ring for her. I’m starting to believe he doesn’t actually have a job. If he did, why did he have to take Rebecca’s money to actually buy her own ring? When he returns to Rebecca, she is furious that he might use her for money. Well, maybe she should have thought of that before she found a much younger man in another country. It kills me that she always compares Zied to her ex, even though she literally finds someone who all ticks the same boxes.