90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days have shown that Angela Deem is afraid she might not be able to live up to cultural expectations as Michael Ilesanmi’s fiancé, so what happened after the couple filmed the 90 Day Fiance spin-off ? Have Angela and Michael split up or are they still together?
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Angela and Michael, whose formal name is Kehinde Ilesanmi, initially played the lead role in Season 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days before appearing on the currently broadcast third season on TLC.
Angela was a 52-year-old hospice nursing assistant from Hazlehurst, GA when she first met Michael, a 30-year-old from Nigeria, online.
Angela – a divorced grandmother of six children – never thought she would walk down the aisle again, but then she met Michael Ilesanmi on Facebook.
The couple talked on the phone for a few months until Angela decided to travel to Nigeria to meet Michael Ilesanmi in person.
Despite receiving warnings from friends that Michael Ilesanmi might scam her, Angela was planning to propose a marriage right away.
But when the couple got to know each other better in Nigeria, Angela discovered some red flags, including the fact that Michael Ilesanmi had admitted having received oral sex from a woman in a club.
Angela therefore postponed her marriage proposal and realized that she had to give herself time to get to know Michael Ilesanmi better, as well as his intentions.
Michael’s motives for dating Angela were unclear, because his dream was to come to the United States and become a successful businessman. Michael seemed to be idolizing President Donald Trump.
Angela had some work to do, but she and Michael Ilesanmi also had to solve personal problems between them, because they were fighting all the time.
Angela had trust problems and Michael made mistakes after mistakes in Angela eyes, but she grumbled about how they were in love and made up every argument.
Angela Deem insisted that Michael Ilesanmi had stolen her heart and made her feel appreciated and desired.
She was therefore determined to continue the process of bringing Michael to the United States.
Meanwhile, Michael said he was looking forward to improving himself so that he could become the man Angela wanted him to be.
After appearing in season 2 of 90 Day Fiance: for 90 days, Angela broke up with Michael Ilesanmi during the filming of the Tell-All special of the season, after calling her his “oldest”.
At the time, Angela insisted that she was repeatedly “done” with Michael, but that turned out not to be the case.
In September 2018, Michael Ilesanmi reportedly told a fan who noted on his Facebook page that he was “engaged” and expected to move to the US under “God’s grace” in 2019 before changing his privacy settings to publicly view his messages to limit.
Days after the season 2 Tell-All special broadcast on TLC in October 2018, Angela Deem also changed her relationship status to “Involved” on Facebook.
In November of that year, Angela confirmed that she and Michael Ilesanmi were still an item during an interview with In Touch Weekly.
“I’m in love with him. I don’t just love him. I can go further, but why? We’ve come that far,” Angela Deem told the magazine at the time.
“Michael and I have been together before and we’re going to make it. It’s just going to be difficult. I miss him a lot and I want to be with him.”
During the new season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Angela discussed how her relationship with Michael had evolved since their last appearance in the franchise.
“Michael and I have been engaged for about a year now. The truth is that we still have some problems, but I love him and I miss him, so I applied for a K-1 visa. And when he comes here, we will get married. I love him so much, “Angela told the cameras.
Angela spent their first time together with Michael for only two weeks, but she was already planning their wedding day in the United States – the location and everything.
Angela, however, discovered that the paperwork for Michael’s visa was being processed in California and that it would take five to eight months to clear it up.
She was also warned by her lawyer to take this decision very seriously, because she would be financially on the hook for Michael Ilesanmi when he arrives in the US. His entry alone would cost Angela thousands of dollars more.
Angela therefore had to decide if she could trust Michael Ilesanmi and see herself really happy with him in the long run.
“He tells me what I want to hear and then he does what he wants,” Angela ventured to the cameras, wondering if Michael even cared for or respected her.
As a result, Angela traveled again to Nigeria to see Michael Ilesanmi and get to the bottom of it. She acknowledged that the visit would “make or break” their romance.
“I miss him … [but] I have to make sure he is the right one, so we really need this time to make sure we do the right thing … We have to work things out,” she said.
Angela Deem believed that Michael “constantly lied to her” and so they had to solve their problems before moving to the United States. However, Angela insisted that Michael was not a bad guy and she was really excited to see her “baby.”
Based on what Michael Ilesanmi shared with viewers, he had changed his lifestyle a lot to please Angela. His friends ridiculed Michael because he was beaten and didn’t deal with them much anymore.
“[Angela] now says I’m engaged, so I can’t do things like that,” Michael said in a confessional.
Michael’s friends poke fun at Angela’s age and say that Michael Ilesanmi has changed since he met the “bossy” American woman. They also called Angela “a sugar mommy” because she had asked Michael to stop working and often sent him money to take care of things.
Michael’s friends were surprised that Michael let Angela be the head of the household, but Michael Ilesanmi suggested that this was only temporary.
“Of course I miss working and going out, but I’m afraid Angela will get mad at me. Like when I went out on my birthday, she was super pissed off at me,” Michael Ilesanmi told the cameras.
Michael’s intention for Angela’s return to Nigeria was to regain her confidence, and he hoped that no new problems would come to light.
When Michael met Angela Deem at the airport, they embraced and kissed each other. But Michael knew there was a lot at stake, because if Angela couldn’t grow to trust him, his chances of moving to the United States would be small.
Michael Ilesanmi grumbled about how happy he was to see Angela because he had missed her “so, so much.”
When the couple returned to Michael’s house, Angela gave Michael a number of gifts, including Donald Trump boxers. He was excited because Angela was in a good mood and wanted to be a loving dovey.
Angela said that Michael “stood in front of this white chocolate” and felt more at ease in his sexuality. She planned to make love with him and enjoy their first night together.
When Angela woke up the next morning, she was so happy and staggered that she was “in love” with Michael. She said their first night together in a year was great, but she was still angry about Michael going out with friends for his birthday.
The couple then drove to the beach for an hour, but Angela got aggravated and chose a fight in the car on the way to the boat cruise.
Angela Deem asked Michael Ilesanmi if he had been on a boat cruise before and he said “yes” when he was younger with his uncle.
Angela, however, called Michael to lie because she had seen a photo of him on a boat near the same boat dock with women on the boat.
Angela Deem accused Michael of being “a goddamn liar” and said she wanted to go home. She told Michael Ilesanmi to get his own hotel room for the night because she was “done” with him.
“I’ve had it! I’m tired of his lying and his nonsense. I don’t want to see him anymore. He doesn’t sleep in the room with me. I don’t know where he goes, and I don’t give f-ck. I am forever with Michael, “Angela told the cameras.
Michael Ilesanmi followed Angela Deem to the hotel lobby where she had a drink, but she told him to leave and swear to him. Angela called him a “b-tch” and threatened to punch him in the mouth unless he left her alone.
However, Michael Ilesanmi refused to leave the hotel because he really wanted to arrange things. Angela was clearly upset, but Michael thought a little time would allow Angela to cool down.
“How much respect do I get from this man that I give everything I got extra?” Angela Deem promised a confessional and added that she didn’t want to bring a man home that made her angry all the time.
“I gave him warnings after warnings, and I don’t have to tolerate anything like that. Me and Michael Ilesanmi are ready.”
Michael apparently slept in his car that night because Angela Deem had thrown his things down the corridor of their hotel.
When Angela Deem walked out after spending the night with Michael, Michael was there waiting for her – but she ran away.
Michael brought Angela a cake to apologize and make things right – because that had worked for Michael in the past when they were fighting – but she threw the cake in his face.
Michael didn’t think he deserved that, regardless of what he had done, and he felt really embarrassed. Michael really started to think that the things between them were over.
After spending three days in Nigeria and traveling 7,000 miles, Angela could not believe her relationship had fallen apart because Michael had chosen to lie about something “as stupid as” previously at a jetty.
Angela Deem was “sick” of Michael making mistakes. Angela wasn’t ready to forgive Michael, but she said they should talk.
Angela Deem apologized for the cake incident and said people who love each other don’t treat each other this way. Angela acknowledged that their relationship was “corrosive” and had no faith, and she deeply wondered if Michael really used her to come to the United States.
Michael apologized for breaking Angela’s confidence, but he promised to be honest with her progress. Michael wanted to make up for Angela, but apparently she had heard that before.
Angela simply asked Michael if he was using her for “a visa,” and he replied, “Hell no. Hell no.”
Michael told Angela that he wanted to change and stop his bad behavior, but Angela said she would definitely be ready if he screwed it up again.
The couple therefore kissed and made up for it, but Angela Deem was clearly still worried about the situation.
After the couple got back together, they made a trip to see Michael’s mother. Angela told Michael’s mother that she would try every possible way to give Michael a child.
Michael wanted to continue his family name, so he hoped Angela’s daughter would be willing to bear their baby.
Michael’s mother said that if the medical procedure didn’t work, Angela would have to release him and allow Michael to have a baby with another woman. But Angela insisted: “That doesn’t happen!”
“I don’t believe in that … No. Absolutely not … Who does that?!” Angela ventilated.
Michael’s mother wasn’t happy to hear that Angela Deem wouldn’t do everything in her power to give Michael a baby, so the tension was high and Michael was stuck in the middle of the two women in his life.
Angela loved Michael’s mother’s honesty, but she was worried about the possibility that Michael would run away and have a baby with another woman. Michael explained that it is part of Nigerian culture and that it is “a normal thing.”
Michael said that polygamy is acceptable in his home country, so Angela Deem feared that Michael would come to the United States and leave her if she couldn’t have a baby with him.
“I’m not going to do it, but if you want me to do it …” Michael began.
“If I allow you,” Angela corrected him. “If I said it was good, you would have sex with another woman to make her pregnant to have another baby. I’m shocked that you would say that,” Angela Deem told him.
Angela Deem wanted to hear Michael Ilesanmi say that he would never do that to her. Angela Deem wanted Michael to want her baby, not just the baby of a woman, so that he could bear the family name.
Angela Deem said that Michael Ilesanmi would have enough time to welcome a child if she is “dead and gone” because she would never allow or allow Michael to conceive another woman.
“I would lie if I told her that I can be happy without a child,” Michael admitted, adding that he promised Angela Deem to stay honest and so he had to do that.
Michael Ilesanmi therefore told Angela that she would not be enough without a baby, so she yelled at him and said that he should have found a younger woman so far. But Michael insisted that he would not leave Angela and that they could explore their options in the fertility clinic.
“I’m not saying I’m leaving you, honey. I’ll still be with you,” Michael commented.
Angela Deem wondered if Michael was just lying to her again, so she had a lot to think about.
Because Angela was willing to try and have a baby with Michael, they went to a fertility clinic together. Angela felt a lot of pressure, knowing how difficult – or perhaps even “impossible” – it would be to have a baby.
Angela feared that Michael Ilesanmi would use the excuse of a baby as a reason not to marry her and step back from their relationship.
Angela revealed in the clinic that she had no menstrual period seven months ago, so she was told that she may no longer be ovulating or fertile. Angela was advised that the chances of fertility decrease by 90 percent after the age of 40.
Angela then had a transvaginal scan to test her ovaries, because Michael Ilesanmi had to figure out what their chances were of having a baby together. Angela admitted that she had to be ‘crazy’ to do this ‘sh-t’ for a man.
No fibroids or abnormalities were found in Angela’s womb, and she was told that things looked “beautiful”. Angela had no eggs or visible follicles in her right ovary, but there was one egg in her left ovary.
However, due to her age, a doctor cannot use the one egg from Angela. Other options therefore had to be discussed and Angela wondered if her daughter would give her one egg.
Angela and Michael Ilesanmi therefore FaceTimed with Skyla, and Michael no doubt asked Skyla if she could give the couple one of her eggs.
Skyla immediately replied, “No,” insisting it was “a dangerous procedure” and “complications happen.” She also didn’t like the idea that her own child was raised by Angela and Michael.
“You don’t need a baby,” Skyla shouted, adding that she was angry, Michael would even ask and put her mother in that position.
Michael said it was important for him to have a baby who could bear his last name, but Skyla said she wouldn’t even sell her egg for a million dollars.
Michael confessed to the cameras that he would be “unhappy” without a child in his life.
Angela Deem felt “uncomfortable” about her future with Michael because of the baby situation, but then the tension escalated when Michael asked her to meet up with his friends she apparently hated in a bar.
Angela Deem didn’t know why Michael’s friends wanted to spend time with her because she didn’t think they respected her or her relationship. Angela thought Michael’s friends had bad influences on him and she had accused them of talking negatively about her behind her back.
Angela Deem said the boys “laughed at [her] misery” and real men would advise Michael Ilesanmi to go home and take care of his fiancé.
Michael’s friends told Angela that she was possessive and controlling, which led Angela Deem to throw a drink at one of them. The men did not think Angela had a good character.
“I have no patience for this nonsense – none,” Angela said to the cameras, while Michael tried to comfort and calm her at the table.
Angela Deem shouted to Michael’s friends and they all left the table one by one. Michael was embarrassed and noticed that his friendships would probably never be the same again.
“I wish she would just talk instead of shout, but she gets upset so quickly, and I don’t know if I can handle this for the rest of my life,” Michael said in a confessional.
Skyla, however, told Angela Deem during an episode earlier this season that she “might” consider being a surrogate for the couple.
The last episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Michael showed that he was not happy with Angela Deem and was disappointed in her attitude and behavior from the previous day. Michael had expected more and he did not appreciate Angela shouting at his friends and embarrassing him.
“I’m going to be your wife, and sometimes I know I’m not good at how I behave,” Angela Deem told Michael.
“But don’t introduce anyone except me and of course your mother. I need to know that no matter what condition I am in, I have you there no matter what happens. That’s why I’m here.”
Michael Ilesanmi promised Angela that he would be by her side, and with that being said, Angela decided to make things right and apologize to his friends for how she had acted – but not for what she had said.
Angela felt bad because she embarrassed her fiancé and Michael Ilesanmi was grateful that Angela cared for her.
Angela eventually smoothed things out with Michael’s friends, but she was still afraid she would not be able to meet cultural expectations as Michael’s fiancé.
The romance of Angela and Michael is certainly filled with ups and downs.
So did Michael Ilesanmi and Angela Deem end up ending their relationship, or is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together?
Since October 1, Michael Ilesanmi has posted a photo of Angela, himself and his friend Kyle.
And in June 2019, Michael Ilesanmi posted several photos of the couple together on his Instagram account – including a selfie.
“Never oh! Never being caught. Not that star.
In May 2019, Angela confirmed that the couple was still together, engaged and would return for season 3 of the 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.
Angela Deem was in New York City for a performance at the time and she spilled the beans to a fan who approached her for a photo of how she and Michael were still planning to tie the knot.
“We’re getting married! We’re filming now for 90 days! He’s coming here [to the United States],” Angela told the fan, according to In Touch.
When asked whether Michael has “learned how to act well” in recent months, Angela Deem has said all good things about him.
“Yes girl, I just have to feed him some chicken and behind closed doors he doesn’t talk anymore,” Angela reportedly told her fan.
A month earlier, Michael went to Instagram and shared a photo of the couple from the moment they filmed the 90 Day Fiance spin-off.
“Forever and one more day,” Michael wrote with a heart at the time, showing that they were still together then.