90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks had just met for the first time, but spoilers have already leaked out to indicate whether the 3-pair season is still together or separating.
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The third season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days premiered on August 4, when viewers were again introduced to Darcey, a 44-year-old from Middletown, CT, who played with her earlier in the second season of Before the 90 Days former friend, Jesse Meester from Amsterdam.
Darcey and Jesse memorable had a very toxic relationship that was on and off because of their constant bickering and quarreling, but the mother of two told cameras that she would never allow a man to control her or be mean to her again.
Darcey Silva claimed that she was all over Jesse and moved with a man who she thinks is more of a catch and treats her much better.
That man is Tom, a 39-year-old distributor for a sports fitness brand from the United Kingdom.
In the premiere of 90 Day Fiance: for the third season of 90 Days, Darcey revealed that she went out with the handsome “jet-setter type” after being connected to him on Facebook four years ago.
The couple was actually planning to meet four years ago, but then Darcey Silva met Jesse and decided to focus on romance instead. Tom was therefore pushed to the bottom, but now he is Darcey’s priority.
Darcey insisted that she was always loyal to Jesse, but occasionally wondered what Tom had in mind.
Darcey Silva bragged about how Tom was friendly and supportive, and she said their relationship flourished over time as they talked and got to know each other better.
Darcey Silva stumbled over being in love again, but she felt that this time was different and her new romance would have a healthy, positive result. Darcey acknowledged that she earned better than Jesse.
In the premiere episode, Darcey said she had plans to fly to England in one week to meet Tom for the first time in person.
“With Jesse it felt like a false love, but I feel that Tom is the right one for me,” Darcey told the cameras.
Darcey’s twin sister Stacey was worried that Darcey would take things a little too quickly, but Darcey wanted everyone to be happy for her, assuming this was her time for love.
Darcey Silva said the ‘torment’ from her last relationship with Jesse had made her stronger and that she would not be ‘stupid’ this time. Darcey claimed that Tom was her “rock” and another man would never fall her again.
But there seemed to be a red flag when Tom told Darcey that he would send a driver to the airport to pick her up instead of greeting her. Tom said it would have been a while since she brushed her teeth and he wanted her to freshen up.
But Darcey Silva turned that into a romantic gesture and said she liked the idea and thought it would be even more romantic to be driven to Tom for an exciting encounter.
Darcey then revealed that Tom had bought her a beautiful ring that she sometimes wore on the ring finger of her left hand.
Darcey apparently once posted a photo of the ring on social media and Jesse accused her engagement and romance as a fake, but she felt sure Tom was all she wanted and a marriage proposal would be the next step for both of them.
In the second episode of the series, Darcey said she was traveling to England in less than a week to meet her “charming, loving, stylish, and understanding” friend Tom.
Darcey Silva was shown enjoying a girls night with her sister Stacey and another friend before she left the country, and she was very happy. Darcey called Tom “perfect” and once hoped for an engagement ring.
Darcey had fun during her night out, mainly because she could drink.
Darcey claimed that Jesse had accused her of being an alcoholic – even when Darcey said she would only have a few glasses of wine with her meal – and so she apparently gave up drinking for two years.
However, Darcey said it was all about Jesse being in control and her gesture didn’t even improve their relationship.
Darcey’s friends were hoping for the best this time, but they were worried that she had unrealistic expectations. It annoyed Darcey that Stacey was no longer supportive.
Darcey then FaceTimed Tom during their outing and he revealed that his friend had a 60-foot yacht on Gran Canaria, an island off the coast of northwest Africa, where he would like to take her on vacation. Darcey wondered if Tom intended to ask the question there.
Darcey’s friend thought Tom was hot, and Darcey didn’t really like how flirty Tom looked over the phone. Tom once commented on the woman’s breasts, but Darcey did not want to argue and appear angry or desperate.
“I wouldn’t meet him if I didn’t think he was ready to settle down … but I took advantage of it with Jesse and I don’t want this to happen again,” Darcey said in a confessional.
Darcey was looking forward to spending two weeks with Tom, and her flight was only two days away.
But Darcey admitted it was a bit “stung” to see how Tom flirted with her boyfriend. She wondered how Tom acted when she wasn’t there, but Darcey knew she had to trust.
However, Stacey said that Darcey was alive right now and ignoring red flags. Stacey wasn’t sure if Tom was ready to enter into a committed relationship, especially since he had told Darcey that he could do and say what he wanted and that Darcey couldn’t control him.
When Darcey told Tom that his flirt was bothering her a little and made her uncomfortable, he apparently ignored her.
However, the pair made up for it and both looked forward to seeing each other. Darcey did not want to feel insecure and hoped that Tom would see and get to know the strong and independent woman she had become.
Darcey then revealed that Jesse had called her at 3 am, but she didn’t answer. Darcey said that Jesse only contacted her to work against her and their dynamics were “exhausting.”
“I hope Tom is who he says he is personal. I will guard my heart a little, but at the same time it is open to the real deal,” Darcey told the cameras.
Darcey Silva later went to the airport to travel to London, England to meet Tom, and hoped that their time would end together with a marriage proposal. She wanted the day to be “the most perfect day ever” for both of them.
When Darcey arrived at the airport, a driver came to pick her up. Darcey thought it was fine to have a driver, but deep down she wanted Tom’s face to be the first person she saw.
Darcey Silva then got ready for 45 minutes in the bathroom of an airport. She changed clothes, showered herself in perfume and chose a sexy black outfit – including a Gucci romper and a long jacket – with thigh-high boots.
Darcey hoped that Tom would treat her with respect and love her, something she was not used to in her previous relationship. She was looking forward to Tom giving her the feeling of being a woman, as if she deserved the love he had to offer.
Darcey felt excited and anxious when she was only minutes away from meeting Tom.
Fans then learned more about Tom, who apparently used to live the bachelor lifestyle and have many women.
But Tom claimed that he wanted to settle down and build a relationship along the bedroom, which was apparently unknown territory to him.
Tom said Darcey was romantic and could put a smile on his face in the darkest days. He thought Darcey Silva was an extremely attractive woman and said he couldn’t keep her eyes off her.
Tom apparently was a shoulder for Darcey to cry after her relationship with Jesse failed, and Tom realized at the time that he really needed to take care of Darcey because he was willing to listen to her problems.
As a result, Tom did not want to treat Darcey as a one-night stand, so he booked a separate room for her in a hotel where she would spend her first night in London.
Tom’s sister Emma then revealed that Tom had walls because he had been seriously injured before and he didn’t seem ready to settle down.
Tom admitted to his sister Emma that Darcey loved him, but it is difficult to say anything back. Tom would not even acknowledge that Darcey was his girlfriend and said they were just an “item” and “more than friends.”
“I am not really at the stage of thinking where I am going to settle down, get married, have children and move to her country or move here. I am at the point where I meet someone I have been really good friends and I am going see where it goes, “Tom told Emma.
Tom said that Darcey Silva lived in “a little fantasy” when it comes to romance and he didn’t want to rush things.
“I want to take my time, and I hope she won’t be upset,” said Tom in a confessional.
Darcey and Tom finally met in a restaurant and he thought she looked even better than her pictures.
But Darcey admitted that Tom “looked a little different” than his photos, but she was more interested in what he had to offer on the inside than on the outside.
The couple celebrated their official meeting with champagne. Tom wasn’t sure if Darcey thought it was great to see him in person for the first time, but she assured him he was even better than what she had expected.
Darcey said Tom wasn’t exactly fit “like a gym boy,” but that’s not really what she wanted. She said he had the “it factor” with his handsome appearance and good style.
But once Tom had told the news that Darcey had her own room, she was certainly surprised. After having known each other for four years and flirting over the phone, she couldn’t believe Tom didn’t want to spend the night with her.
“Darcey is approaching me very strongly and I am still checking where I want them to be,” Tom told the cameras.
However, Tom said that he treated Darcey Silva with respect and that she could decide whether to invite him into her room to spend the night.
Darcey appreciated the fact that Tom behaved like a gentleman, but she also wanted to feel that Tom really loved her – and she wasn’t sure. Darcey thought their relationship was on a different level and they might not have been on the same page.
So were Darcey and Tom on the same page? Are they still together or have they split?
A season preview that was broadcast at the end of the debut episode of the new 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days season showed that Tom complained about how emotional Darcey was.
The images also captured Darcey who said she loved Tom when he stood next to her, but he said nothing in response.
However, Darcey Silva said she still had a relationship with Tom and they are happy during a recent interview with Newsweek.
“We are very good. We are very happy. Things have been great and some people can see it that way and some people can see it in a different way,” Darcey said.
“You will have to go through the journey with us.”
Darcey’s social media give little indication that she and Tom are still going out, because the majority of the photos are only of themselves, but she has posted two photos that indicate that their relationship is still ongoing in August.
In mid-August, Darcey shared a photo on Instagram of Tom who took a selfie and enjoyed his handsome 45-degree appearance.
“Keep an eye on the price,” she wrote.
And a few weeks earlier, Darcey Silva posted a photo of her dating app profile, along with Tom’s, and wrote it with a heart.
However, there are also no signs that Darcey Silva has left the United States since January when she posted a close-up photo of Tom who wore her and her designer boots on a cobblestone street while visiting the United Kingdom.
“Getting carried away in London,” Darcey wrote the image that did not reveal Tom’s face at the time.
During her interview with Newsweek, Darcey also popped over Tom as a partner.
“He’s a great guy,” Darcey said. “He’s always been a great guy. We have a really deep bond and a lot in common … I love his voice. It’s very sexy, very James Bond.”
Darcey explained that it is a positive that Tom is closer to her own age than Jesse.
“He is older. He has lived life. He is a jetsetter. He owns his own business. He has a lot of experience in life and elevates me. I never feel abandoned,” Darcey told Newsweek.
“It was something that I had to explore, because maybe he was the one, so I decided to do that trip again. I don’t regret it.”