90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days showed that Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks agree to have an exclusive relationship, but what happened afterwards? Is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together or have Darcey and Tom split up?
90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days Spoiler Warning: Please stop reading if you want to be surprised how the relationship between Darcey and Tom goes during the rest of the 90 Day Fiance spin-off. This article shows if Darcey and Tom are still together.
Darcey, a 44-year-old from Middletown, CT, played earlier in season 2 of Before the 90 Days with her now ex-boyfriend, Jesse Meester from Amsterdam, with whom she had a toxic relationship.
The mother of two insisted that she would never let her be controlled by a man again or be mean to her, and she was done with constant bickering and arguing in a relationship.
Darcey Silva therefore continued with Tom, a 39-year-old distributor for a sports fitness brand from Nottingham, England, who reportedly had treated her much better.
Darcey Silva and the “jetsetter” met no less than four years ago on Facebook.
They had actually planned to meet in person at the time, but Darcey chose to pursue a romance with Jesse instead. Although Darcey Silva said she was loyal to Jesse, Tom always seemed to be in the back of her mind.
As soon as Darcey and Tom got to know each other better over the phone and video chat, she found him friendly and supportive.
Darcey Silva grumbled about being in love again, and she was convinced that this time it would be different, because her dynamism with Tom Brooks was healthy and positive.
“With Jesse it felt like a false love, but I feel that Tom Brooks is the right one for me,” Darcey Silva told the cameras.
However, Darcey’s twin sister Stacey was concerned that Darcey would take things too quickly and hurt herself. She accused Darcey of having unrealistic expectations and Tom of not being ready to settle down, but Darcey Silva just wanted everyone to be happy for her.
Darcey Silva said she even had a beautiful ring to prove that Tom Brooks cared for her, and she wore it on her left hand. (Jesse would have blasted her on social media because it was a fake engagement ring).
“I hope Tom Brooks is who he says he is,” Darcey said. I will guard my heart a little, but at the same time it is open to the real deal. “
But Tom Brooks had lived a bachelor life before he became romantically involved with Darcey Silva.
Tom Brooks claimed that he wanted to develop a relationship beyond the bedroom, but apparently this was unknown territory for him.
Tom said Darcey Silva was romantic and could put a smile on his face in the darkest days. He thought Darcey was an extremely attractive woman and said he couldn’t keep her eyes off her.
Tom also helped Darcey Silva get through her relationship with Jesse, showing that he really had to take care of her.
As a result, Tom didn’t want to treat Darcey as a one-night stand, so when she arrived in London, he booked a separate room for her in a hotel.
Tom’s sister Emma then revealed that Tom had walls because he had been seriously injured before and he didn’t seem ready to settle down.
Tom Brooks admitted to his sister Emma that Darcey loved him, but it is difficult to say anything back. Tom Brooks would not even acknowledge that Darcey was his girlfriend and said they were just an “item” and “more than friends.”
“I am not really at the stage of thinking where I am going to settle down, get married, have children and move to her country or move here. I am at the point where I meet someone I have been really good friends and I go see where it goes, “Tom told Emma.
Tom Brooks said that Darcey Silva lived in “a little fantasy” when it comes to romance and he didn’t want to rush things.
“I want to take my time, and I hope she won’t be upset,” said Tom Brooks in a confessional.
Darcey and Tom finally met in a restaurant and he thought she looked even better than her pictures.
Darcey Silva admitted that Tom “looked a little different” than his photos, but she was more interested in what he had to offer on the inside than on the outside.
Tom Brooks wasn’t sure if Darcey Silva thought it was great to see him in person for the first time, but she assured him he was even better than what she had expected.
Darcey Silva said Tom Brooks wasn’t exactly fit “like a gym boy,” but that’s not really what she wanted. She said he had the “it factor” with his handsome appearance and good style.
Tom Brooks behaved like a gentleman during his first few days with Darcey, but she became very strong and sometimes became too emotional for Tom’s taste.
Darcey Silva also wanted to be more intimate than Tom Brooks had finished, so she started to wonder if they were on the same page.
Tom Brooks found Darcey “a bit difficult to deal with,” so he wasn’t sure how he wanted to continue their relationship.
“I have seen other women. But I told them I would not see them again,” Tom Brooks said in a confessional.
“I want to see where this goes with Darcey Silva. I want to see if this love affair and romance, which it could be, could become something more in the long run.”
Darcey admitted it was “painful to hear” that Tom had seen other women until a week before her arrival. Tom suggested they were on trial and then Darcey acknowledged that she had accepted “too much, too quickly.”
Darcey Silva later asked Tom to change their original plans to sail on a 60-foot yacht in Gran Canaria instead of traveling to Albania, where Stacey was staying with her boyfriend.
Darcey Silva wanted to hear from Stacey that Tom was the right man for her, and so reluctantly but ultimately obliged.
Darcey Silva admitted that she ‘fell in love’ with Tom, but something was ‘a bit wrong’. She knew he cared for her because he had agreed to go to Albania, but Darcey was afraid that Tom “was holding something.”
Tom was more reserved in his behavior than Darcey Silva and wondered if Darcey’s exaggerated words were sincere and genuine. He was not used to women being so open and vulnerable, so he seemed almost annoyed. Darcey was so grateful and enthusiastic about everything he did for her.
“Part of me is worried that sexual chemistry may not be there, but I hope there will be fireworks. I mean, I just want to feel his passion. I’m so ready for that,” Darcey said in a confessional.
Darcey and Tom finally made love, and according to Darcey the passion was there and Tom was “eternal”.
Tom was happy that the couple had waited to be intimate and he couldn’t wait to see where their relationship led.
Darcey Silva said the night pushed them 10 steps in the right direction and it was “such a relief.” She finally felt they were on “the same page.”
While shopping in the city, the couple walked past a jewelry store and Darcey pointed out that she likes white diamonds. Tom noted that Darcey put a lot of pressure on engagement and getting married, but he wanted to take his time with the relationship to make sure she is the only one.
Tom simply didn’t want to rush anything and he warned Darcey that he would not fall on one knee “now”. Darcey Silva seemed to understand, but she told the cameras that maybe she could change her mind because Tom seemed to fall for her.
Tom then brought Darcey to a club, where she met some girls who happened to be Tom’s good friends. However, had dated three or four months with one of the women named Roucelle.
Darcey Silva thought it was “a bit strange” that he had invited an ex-girlfriend to come with them, but Darcey wanted to be nice and hoped his friends would accept her.
Tom wouldn’t even tell his friends that he and Darcey Silva were exclusive or boyfriend / girlfriend.
Roucelle also admitted that Tom was “sometimes quite disconnected with his emotions” during the meeting. She warned Darcey Silva that Tom tended to disappear and close himself.
Tom admitted that he had walls and was guarded because he had been engaged twice before, and both times the women left him.
“Maybe I can’t commit because of the way things used to be,” said Tom in a confessional.
Roucelle thought Darcey Silva seemed “very nice,” but she told Tom she couldn’t imagine them together if Darcey left the table to go to the bathroom.
Tom could not admit that he was in love and Roucelle insisted that Tom was not “emotionally capable” of feeling or embracing his emotions.
Darcey and Tom then flew together to Albania so that Tom could meet Stacey and Stacey’s fiancé. Tom called the trip “a finger in the eyes”, but he knew that relationships are all about compromise.
Darcey revealed that Stacey’s fiance is a 27-year-old fitness model. Darcey claimed that they did not have the same taste in men, except for the fact that they are attracted to foreigners.
Darcey was very enthusiastic about the meeting, but she really wanted Stacey to approve of her relationship.
Tom thought he’d learn a lot about Darcey by seeing her deal with her twin sister, but what he learned wasn’t all right.
Darcey Silva said that she and Stacey were each other’s best friend, but sometimes they could also be enemies because their relationship was so unique.
“I don’t think we’re jealous of each other, I think it’s just about one person doing something more than the other,” Darcey explained.
The girls squabbled a little for their men, while Stacey accused Darcey of always trying to ‘locate’ her. Neither of the sisters knew for sure that the other wanted to see her happy.
Darcey Silva was upset because Tom saw things she didn’t want him to see. She also became emotional about her relationship with Stacey and how Tom might have experienced it.
Tom informed Darcey that she had acted immature, but Darcey blamed her sister for doing the same. The dynamic between the sisters was unfortunate and Darcey Silva thought it was bad that Tom was not in a good headspace.
Tom told Darcey Silva that she changed when she was with her sister and that the journey was about them. Tom said the trip was not romantic and he felt it was just two friends.
Darcey Silva felt guilty because she didn’t think Tom was enjoying himself. She was worried that Tom’s feelings for her would be stronger if they continued with his planned trip to Gran Canaria.
Tom even pointed out that he had considered offering a marriage to Darcey in Gran Canaria, where his parents were engaged, causing Darcey to cry and feel empty.
“My head was like,” Let’s do this and if things are great and it’s great, maybe, you know, I would have asked you to marry me, “Tom told Darcey.” But we’re here and it’s not the way I wanted it. “
Tom said that he and Darcey may have been dragged around at the moment because the location and surroundings are beautiful.
“We would have been much more romantic to each other,” said Tom in a confessional.
“After I had been to Albania and it wasn’t like that, I really saw what Darcey is all about, and now I am not 100% sure where we are in the relationship.”
Tom said there was half Darcey he loved and wanted to spend the rest of his life with, but then there was half of her he just wanted to be friends with.
Darcey Silva said she had missed what could have been the best day of her life. She hated her sister because she asked her to come to Albania and blamed Stacey for ruining everything.
Tom noticed that Darcey was troubled by Stacey’s romance and said she was childish and jealous. Tom said that Darcey was completely unaware of her “rude” behavior and how it affected everyone around her.
“Darcey is so keen to love that when things don’t go her way, when things go wrong, she puts the blame on everyone. I see Tom getting away from her, and I’m afraid she’ll lose him forever,” Stacey told the cameras.
Darcey called the trip to Albania “a disaster” and she only had one week left with Tom. She was worried about leaving London, England without a proposal – and perhaps even without a relationship.
When Darcey returned to the table, she started crying and said that Tom was not yet “in love” with her.
“Why do you think I don’t love you?” Tom asked.
“I feel like I’m not good enough for you,” Darcey told him.
Tom told Darcey that this was a sign of how she felt about herself, but Darcey wasn’t sure where she fit into Tom’s life.
“You want me to sit on my knees and say,” I love you? ” That is not going to happen. You are seeking approval; I do not want to calm it down. I am not going to do that.
“Where does that leave us?” she asked.
“I don’t know,” Tom replied.
After spending two weeks with Tom and one of those weeks in Albania, Darcey traveled to Tom’s hometown of Nottingham and planned to stay for a week.
The travel experience was apparently painful because Tom Darcey reportedly gave the silent treatment. And once they arrived at their hotel, they still didn’t speak.
“This has nothing to do with anyone but you,” Tom told Darcey, before telling the cameras, “If Darcey acts that way, I just don’t find it attractive.”
Darcey was in a bad mood after she went tit for tat with her sister and heard she had upset Tom, who didn’t like to take a look at their future after seeing how Darcey spent time with Stacey.
Tom explained to Darcey that he would never accept her behavior for his family; however, he still cared for her, so he was prepared to continue their romance.
“I don’t know where I am now in my relationship with Tom,” Darcey told the cameras.
Darcey wished Tom had a good time in Albania, so she apologized for the way she had acted. Darcey felt embarrassed and guilty for making Tom uncomfortable. She said she didn’t want to lose Tom, but he promised she wouldn’t lose him.
Tom could see the good in Darcey, but he didn’t know exactly how to feel or what to do. The couple had some problems working out, but Tom decided to enjoy a romantic evening with Darcey by the fireplace.
The next day Darcey and Tom walked with his dog and everything seemed to be normal again. Darcey felt that they could endure everything together and she was so happy to see him finally open.
Darcey and Tom then met his sister for dinner at a restaurant. Tom’s sister said that Darcey is exactly the woman that Tom usually goes out with – fake eyelashes, fake hair color, fake breasts, etc. Tom’s sister wanted to know if Darcey was real and real.
Tom told his sister that he “fell” for Darcey, who said that Tom was worth having a long-term relationship with because she really cared for him.
“I’m not going to hurt you, believe me,” Darcey told Tom while eating.
Tom’s sister wondered if a woman would be enough for him, but he said he wanted to settle down. Tom’s sister apparently had no confidence that Tom could handle a long-term relationship, let alone a long-distance relationship.
“I would be very surprised if this is the last woman Tom is with,” his sister told the cameras.
After dinner, Tom revealed to Darcey that he often uses his family as an excuse or crutch for his relationships with non-working women.
Darcey didn’t like to hear that and said “I love you” to Tom, but he just stood there in silence and didn’t say those three little words back.
Three weeks after Darcey’s arrival in England, she was still waiting to hear Tom’s important three words.
Darcey thought she could see the love in Tom’s eyes, but during a night of salsa dancing, she became jealous when he danced with other partners and actually pushed her aside.
Darcey wanted more attention from Tom, attention she thought she deserved. However, Emma warned Darcey that Tom would never be a “saved man” and that she should allow him to party and have fun, otherwise she would waste her time with him.
“I love him,” cried Darcey. “It hurts to see that … I have a fantasy of your brother. I have to put the reality into it.”
Emma told Darcey that Tom is a successful, confident man who doesn’t want a possessive, jealous or needy partner. Emma advised Darcey to stop uncertainty, but she struggled to have confidence in herself when Tom wasn’t ready to commit to her or even say, “I love you.”
Emma told Darcey to be honest with Tom and get some answers, but Darcey was scared. Emma apparently loved Darcey and thought she was very sweet, so she hoped for the best for the couple.
Darcey therefore pulled Tom aside later that evening and asked frankly: “It’s a bit difficult for me to ask, but I really need to know something – are we exclusive?”
Tom replied: “If you need clarification, then we are exclusive. I am alone and you.”
Tom kissed Darcey and she felt great that they finally had a committed relationship. She loved his answer and felt happy, but they only had two days together.
“I think we’re going to a possible proposal,” Darcey commented.
Did Tom ever end proposing to Darcey? Is the 90 Day Fiance couple still together?
In an interview with Entertainment Tonight on October 15, Darcey said she is no longer dating Tom.
“Are we still together? You know, it’s yet to be determined. You’ll have to wait,” Darcey told ET on October 15.
“But on that journey of love, I take risks and I am so proud of it. I will always follow my heart and, you know what, I am grateful. I am grateful for the energy I bring in relationships and opening my heart. And it’s positive on my side, so we’ll see what happens. “
She also suggested that Tom might say some negative words about her during the interview.
“Tom will like it, maybe say a little bit of what he wants to say, but you know what? In the end I have a real heart,” Darcey insisted.
“I want love just like everyone else. And you know what? If you have known someone that long, and you are going on a journey for love, you know, I deserve it. happens. “
When ET asked Darcey if Tom had fooled her, she said, “I wouldn’t say he … Maybe sometimes, yes.”
Although Tom has not yet expressed any feelings of love for Darcey in the show, she teased that their relationship was definitely improving, although their relationship might be over right now.
“He said he loves me,” Darcey shared. “But you’ll have to watch the next few shows to see what happens.”
Tom has had many diets, trained and shared many photos of himself on Instagram in recent weeks. He not only cut his hair, but he also looks completely different.
While Darcey said she was “very proud” of Tom for losing some weight and getting in shape, she took the opportunity to beat him a bit.
“We’re all going through our own transformations, but when your ego gets involved … it’s doubtful,” Darcey said.
“I’m glad she did it for his health, but other than that we will see. Keep looking.”
Moreover, Darcey told ET that she will never stop her search for The One if viewers come to discover that her romance with Tom has not been successful.
“I have experienced many relationships … I do not give up, no matter what happens. I keep fighting. Love is always in my heart. But you know what, I lean back and we” I will see what happens, “said she.
While Darcey and Tom are both still actively posting on Instagram, each of their Instagram profiles have recently been changed to private.
Before Darcy made her profile private, it seemed that she had deleted her photos from Tom.
Darcey had posted some pictures of Tom in the last two months, but she deleted them all.
On September 4, Darcey had posted a photo of Tom and the title “Living legend! With my heart wide open and all love. My rock! Perfect gentleman with a heart of gold! “
And in mid-August, Darcey shared a photo on Instagram of Tom who took a selfie and enjoyed his handsome 45-degree appearance.
“Keep an eye on the price,” she wrote.
Darcey also deleted a photo she had from Tom’s dating app profile that she had endorsed with a heart.
And more recently, Darcey posted photos of herself, indicating that her relationship with Tom is finished.
“Darcey will come back and do better! Feel free and never regret it!” she endorsed a photo she posted early October.
She also shared a model photo and said she was strong and loved herself.
And Darcey posted a video of herself posing in front of a mirror. She wrote next to it: “I will close my heart! I will not be fooled! I deserve the best.”
On September 29, Darcey told her fans that they should be just as picky with their men as with their bikinis.
As for Tom, there is little indication on his bill that he is still in a relationship with Darcey.
According to the Instagram account Frauded By TLC, Tom has been spotted with a blonde woman on several occasions in recent weeks and the couple is said to have attended a Versace fashion show together in Milan in mid-September.
Tom “was reportedly recently seen in a cafe in Milan with this absolutely non-Darcey beauty and there was definitely ass-grabbing,” the Instagram account Frauded By TLC wrote a clear photo of Tom and the busty blonde woman who posed for a photo in front of a Versace photo background.
“Reportedly, there is another girl who cheated on Tom with this girl.”
Tom posted an Instagram photo with an alleged personalized invitation to a Versace show on September 20 on the day the event took place, but he didn’t post real photos of the event.
Meanwhile, Darcey seems to have been in Europe, while Tom is reportedly also in Milan – but instead of being with Tom in Milan, she was in Malta with her sister Stacey!
Early 20 September – the same alleged date of the Versace fashion show, coincidence? – Darcey started to plaster her own Instagram account with postings that made her party in Malta with her twin sister Stacey to celebrate their birthdays.
“Malta, your Silva Twins are on their way! Thank you to everyone who makes this luxurious twin trip one in a million! We love you all and love all our fans from Malta! Come join us for our Silva Stars,” she wrote September 17 photo to promote the couple’s upcoming trip.
“Darcey & Stacey meet and greet, press event and another twin treat for our birthday on September 23! Let’s have the journey of a lifetime! Lead the fabulous life! It will be twintastic.”
Next, Darcey posted more than a dozen sexy photos and videos over the next week and showed herself that she had a great time to party and enjoy the sun in Malta.
Although it takes less than two hours to fly from Milan to Malta, there is no social media activity indicating that Tom Darcey visited Malta during her stay in the European country.
Prior to the couple’s recent social media activity, Darcey had said she was still in a relationship with Tom and they were happy during an early August interview with Newsweek.
“We are very good. We are very happy. Things have been great and some people can see it that way and some people can see it in a different way,” Darcey said.
“You will have to go through the journey with us.”
In her interview, Darcey added that Tom is “a great guy” and “a great guy.”
“We have a really deep bond and a lot in common … I love his voice. It’s very sexy, very James Bond,” she said.
Darcey also explained that it is a good thing that Tom is closer to her own age than Jesse when they went out.
“He is older. He has lived life. He is a jetsetter. He owns his own business. He has a lot of experience in life and elevates me. I never feel abandoned,” Darcey told Newsweek at the time.
“It was something that I had to explore, because maybe he was the one, so I decided to do that trip again. I don’t regret it.”
Prior to her trip to Malta, there was no sign that Darcey had left the United States since January 2019 when she posted a close-up photo of Tom who wore her and her designer boots on a cobblestone street while visiting the United Kingdom.
“Getting carried away in London,” Darcey wrote the image that did not reveal Tom’s face at the time.