90 Day Fiancé fans are somewhat divided when it comes to Deavan Clegg and Jihoon Lee. On the one hand, some fans are just happy to see what a relationship seems to be without too much hassle so far – and they are especially happy to see that Jihoon Lee really has the idea of becoming a father.
On the other hand, there are fans who are not happy with the parenting habits of Deavan Clegg. Clegg’s daughter, Drascilla, is particularly active and energetic. Many fans have left comments on Instagram in an effort to call Clegg for what they experience as bad parenting – questioning certain aspects of Drascilla’s behavior and upbringing.
Drascilla’s bad habits
90 Day Fiancé fans were shocked when they saw the behavior of Drascilla’s ‘wild child’. When Jihoon Lee and Deavan Clegg were first introduced to the show, fans saw Drascilla running across countertops and even throwing a bowl out of a cupboard.
Drascilla also ran across the airport and rolled to the ground when Clegg met Jihoon Lee at the Las Vegas airport. Fans have also pointed out that Drascilla, who is three years old, occasionally drinks from a bottle.
Moreover, Deavan Clegg revealed to Jihoon Lee that it may be difficult for them to find time in bed together. When Lee and Clegg reunited in a hotel room in Las Vegas, Lee quickly learned that Drascilla often sleeps with Clegg.
“She has to sleep in the middle tonight,” Clegg told Lee in the hotel room.
“When I watch American films, daughter and son, they have a bed. Say goodnight to Dad. Goodnight kiss and another room, “Lee said, expressing his confusion.
Fans rip into Deavan Clegg’s parenting
Since they debuted on TLC, fans have torn apart Deavan Clegg for how she conceived Drascilla. Some think she gives Drascilla too much freedom, while others think that she lets Drascilla coddles her in their bed and give her a bottle.
A fan wrote: ‘She no longer has control over that child. The mother just lets her do anything. I have never seen her the discipline of the child. “
Another fan wrote: ‘A bottle at 3 o’clock and sleeping in your bed are both so outrageous and unacceptable. That is not good. You have to teach your children the right things at age level to bring them further in life. You are a bad mother now. Plus having a baby with a stranger also shows your bad judgment. Leaving a good job for an immature man … what’s wrong in your head? It is not cute. It is disturbing. “
An Instagram user added: ‘The child is a brat, but it is Devans’ fault. Clear zero parenting there. It is better for mother to draw up rules now, so that the child does not become more annoying. “
Deavan Clegg fires back
The 90 Day Fiancé star does not lie down. She was fully prepared to shoot back at all haters.
Clegg wrote on Instagram: “For people who call my daughter rude names that I can’t even repeat, grow up.” She is three years old, she is still a baby, calls her names you hear in films with an R-rating, she is the most amazing little girl who is the best big sister. I don’t let any reactions come to me. But adults see that average words from three years old are not acceptable. “
Clegg also placed an image of himself as a child, entitled: “I grew up to be free and run around and enjoy my childhood. I had messy hair and mismatched clothing because my mother let me choose which outfit I wanted to wear and which I loved. And I let Drascilla do the same. Because I loved my childhood and I remember nice fun times. Drascilla is my world and we do so many fun things together. I work full time to make sure she has everything she wants and needs. She is my little twin. “
Other Instagram users had Clegg’s back. A fan wrote: “Mom, you are just beautiful. Now you have a beautiful new baby, your daughter is precious and this will balance your life. Don’t mind the heaters, and the drugs they suggest have more negative effects than they know. Raising children is a challenge and everyone has the answer. You grow and learn through this process. The Lord will guide you. I pray that your new life is full of love, to be shared with your new family. Keep doing your best, life is things, but stay strong. You have this. “
Many other users expressed similar feelings and supported Clegg’s defense.