Every Teen Mom 2 reunion special comes with moments that we will never forget. At this year’s event, Chelsea Houska DeBoer had lots of great advice to provide her fans with, from everything from dealing with her daughter Aubrey’s biological father to continuing after a difficult relationship. Here is part of the wisdom that she shared during Part 3 of the Season 9 Reunion Special.
Chelsea Houska was moved by one fan’s words
Fans are almost as in love with Chelsea’s husband, Cole, as they are. One of the fans came to the microphone and said: “I want to compliment Cole on what he did for Aubrey. I really have so much respect for that. “But it was her follow-up question that greatly influenced Chelsea Houska.
Daisy’s question showed that this subject was very personal to her. She said, “What would you say to other mothers and children who are currently struggling to leave their child’s father behind and what are healthy coping mechanisms.” Dr. Drew stepped in and said, “Did you have a stepfather who stepped in like Cole? Or do you want you to do that?”
Here’s what she said to her
Daisy then started to cry and said, “My father left me when I was a child. Like Aubrey, I begged my father to be there for me. And he never did – he never went up to be a father. “She continued,” Children should not endure this. They must have loving parents. No child deserves it. No child deserves to be abandoned by their father. “
Chelsea Houska agreed and said, “I don’t even know if I can give a good answer. I’m trying to do my best. I don’t know what to tell Aubrey, you know? I’m just trying to educate her to be confident and be strong. And you must be proud of yourself that you let the woman be the woman you are without having that father figure. “
Both Chelsea and Cole came to the public and gave Daisy a hug. When they sat down again, Chelsea said, “Okay, that makes it worthwhile – being on the program. Because sometimes you wonder … “she said about her time on Teen Mom 2.
Chelsea Houska also addressed how she healed from her past relationship
A fan on Twitter asked Chelsea Houska how long she thinks you should wait after you step out of a toxic relationship like the one with Adam before you try dating again. Chelsea said, “I think I should focus on myself. After that I was very low,” she said about her relationship with Adam, who had been on and off for years, even after Aubrey was born.
“I didn’t like myself, I didn’t like what I looked like.” She continued: “I was very down and hard for myself until I started working on myself. So I think you should work on yourself and bring yourself to a good space.” Dr. Drew agreed: “And become a little bit big. ‘
Chelsea Houska repeated his statement and added, “Otherwise you will continue to attract these toxic men.” After Nessa agreed with her about the way she formulated her comment, Chelsea said, “I’m talking about the law of attraction,” a philosophy that what you convey in the universe is what you’ll get back.
Chelsea’s in a much better place now
Although they are very busy with three children (including two under the age of three), Chelsea and Cole are working on making time for each other. When asked about how they manage their marriage, Chelsea said, “I mean, we certainly don’t have date nights or just the time we’re used to. But we still get some hugs here and there whenever we can.”
Despite all that, they are very happy. When Dr. Drew asked Cole: “Did you always want a big family?” He replied, “I knew I had to be a father.” Chelsea confirmed this and said there should be more men like Cole. “He’s such a good person,” she said about her husband. “I feel that I would be proud to raise children with him and to bring such people into the world.