Sarper Guven has swiftly turned into a controversial figure in “90 Day Fiance.” Fans are fed up with his narcissism. This includes bragging about his “body count” and disrespecting women. His appearance on “90 Day Fiance: The Single Life” Tell-All heightened the backlash. Both viewers and cast members criticized him for his attitude.
Sarper’s reputation has worsened due to new details about his relationship with Shekinah Garner. Many fans now fear Shekinah might get hurt. This concern stems from Sarper’s past and his dubious actions. Notably, he promised to move to the U.S. but didn’t. This is a major red flag.
Shekinah’s Troubling Move to Turkey
Shekinah Garner’s decision to move to Turkey to be with Sarper Guven has raised eyebrows. What started as a hopeful journey for love quickly turned into a series of disappointments. Shekinah believed that after securing a visa for Sarper, they would both move to the United States. However, Sarper revealed that he has no intention of leaving Turkey, admitting that he only agreed to the plan to pacify her.
This revelation has caused significant strain in their relationship. But it’s not the only issue. Sarper’s so-called “trophy” wine bottles—keepsakes from his many past lovers—were another major source of tension. His refusal to get rid of them added to Shekinah’s growing list of concerns about their relationship. Fans fear Sarper’s manipulation will leave Shekinah heartbroken and alone.
A Disturbing Pattern of Control
Sarper Guven’s controlling tendencies have also become a focal point for fans. In Season 5 of “90 Day Fiance: The Other Way,” viewers watched in disbelief as Sarper monitored Shekinah’s weight. He even made her weigh herself on camera. His control didn’t stop there. Sarper took things further by designing a new nose for Shekinah, a move that many found deeply unsettling.
Despite the controversy, Shekinah seems to trust Sarper’s judgment. “I can see why it sounds crazy,” Shekinah Garner said. It might seem odd to let a man, especially one without medical training, decide on her plastic surgery. However, she defended him, saying, “He knows what looks good. And so I trusted him.” Sarper’s influence over Shekinah’s appearance and decisions has led many to question the health of their relationship.
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Is Shekinah Ignoring the Red Flags?
Shekinah Garner supports Sarper Guven, but fans worry she’s ignoring warning signs. Sarper claims he’s been with thousands of women. This raises doubts about his commitment to Shekinah. Moreover, he insists on not moving to the U.S. and controls her appearance.
Shekinah’s decision to defend Sarper, despite concerns from friends and fans, has increased worry. She views their relationship as traditional, with Sarper providing for her and leading. However, this raises doubts. People wonder if Shekinah is risking her happiness by staying with someone who seems more interested in control than in love.Fans Demand Better for Shekinah
As Shekinah Garner and Sarper’s story continues to unfold, fans are vocal about their concerns. Many urge Shekinah to rethink her relationship. They want her to see the unhealthy patterns that have emerged. The “90 Day Fiance” community is divided. Can Sarper change? Or, is Shekinah better off moving on?
For now, Shekinah is making the 13-hour journey to Turkey every five weeks to be with Sarper. But the future of their relationship remains uncertain. With so many red flags already raised, fans are left wondering if Shekinah will eventually see the truth and make the tough decision to walk away.
