In a dramatic turn of events on the May 4 episode of 90 Day Fiancé, tensions between Sarper Guven and Shekinah Garner boiled over. With only two months left on his fiancé visa, Sarper shared his doubts. He said, “We have to break up, or we have to get well again. Nothing in between.”
Sarper accused Shekinah of changing drastically since their days in Turkey. “I cannot recognize you, Shekinah. This is not the girl that I met in Turkey,” Sarper declared, describing her current demeanor as “distant, cold, rude [and] dismissive.” Shekinah quickly shot back, placing the blame squarely on Sarper’s treatment of her, saying, “The version of me that you get depends on how you treat me.”
The argument reached its peak when Sarper confidently claimed, “If we break up, you will cry for years for me. I know you.” Outraged, Shekinah swiftly retorted, “I’m not some helpless woman that can’t survive without you or that’s going to cry for years. Give me a break.”
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90 Day Fiancé: Fans Accuse Sarper of Abandoning Fatherhood Dreams
Viewers quickly remembered Sarper’s past claims about wanting to be a father. This raised doubts about how sincere his intentions really are. Reddit fans called out Sarper for dropping his fatherhood dreams for the story. They joked that after being linked to 2,500 women, it’s “a holy miracle” if he has really slept with that many and only has one child.”
Commenters noted that Sarper reportedly has a child in Eastern Europe. He ignored the child when he first learned about them. One fan wrote, “If he really dreamt of being a dad, he should have prioritized that before he hit his mid-40s.”
The online discussion criticized Sarper’s choices. It pointed out the irony of his supposed desire to be a father. A fan stated, “Seeing this a lot these days. 40+ year-old men finally ‘realizing’ they want to be a dad after wasting their good years being playboys.”
90 Day Fiancé: Is Shekinah Controlling Sarper’s Life in LA?
Social media comments added fuel to the fire, showing Shekinah’s controlling attitude after moving Sarper to Los Angeles. A fan sympathetically noted, “He can’t even cook when she has clients that day? Shame on her and it’s all about her attitude. Sarper should call this one and go back to Turkey.”
Fans felt Sarper was truly family-oriented when he interacted with his niece. This suggests he may have a softer side, even with the relationship tensions.
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