Vanja Grbić just dropped a bombshell on Instagram – and it has everyone talking.
In a bold and unfiltered post, the 90 Day Fiancé star shared a stunning video and wrote:
“The struggle is real!!! Dating in 2025 is not for the weak hearted. It’s so hard to find a person you completely vibe with.”
That single caption launched a wave of comments, confessions, and fan flirtations. Some praised her brutal honesty. Others just couldn’t get over her outfit.
“So beautiful and sexy and gorgeous,” one follower gushed.
“That outfit is EVERYTHING,” added another. Vanja revealed it was custom made.
One user admitted they quit dating six years ago and “just gave up,” while another simply said:
“It isn’t worth the hassle… I’ve got my grandson and that’s all I need.”
Amid the praise and heart emojis, one big question kept coming up: Why is someone like Vanja still single?
90 Day Fiancé: Fans Say “She Needs Praise Constantly”
While Instagram was filled with admiration, Reddit took a darker turn.
In a post called “Vanja shares sexy video,” commenters criticized the reality star. They labeled her actions as attention-seeking.
“Why are adults making these sad and cringey lip sync videos?” asked one user bluntly.
“She is stunning… but she’s also crazy,” claimed another.
Others pointed out a perceived personality issue:
“Her energy is always dialed up to 10. Not many people can stay around a person like that for long.”
“She needs constant attention and praise — that’s exhausting,” said one Redditor. “She’s an ‘only in small quantity’ kind of person.”
Still, not everyone agreed with the hate.
Some came to her defense:
“I find her mesmerizing to watch.”
“She’s not fake. She’s just too real for people who expect women to shrink.”
The debate about Vanja’s personality – vibrant or overwhelming – continues to split the fanbase.

90 Day Fiancé: Internet Weighs In On Vanja’s Love Life
Even those who admire her can’t help but point out that Vanja’s online presence is intense.
“It’s something about her mouth… as soon as she opens it, the beauty fades,” admitted one commenter.
“As a woman, I hate that I think that.”
Others simply chalked her singleness up to high standards and bad timing.
“Don’t look too hard. Keep your heart open & your head smart,” one fan wrote. “You deserve the best.”
One user even suggested a future reality gig:
“She should be on the next Hunt for Love — she’s perfect for it.”
It’s clear Vanja isn’t just looking for love — she’s living it out loud. And whether fans admire or criticize, she continues to steal the spotlight.
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