“90 Day Fiancé” star Stevi is facing a torrent of criticism. Viewers are accusing her of blatantly disregarding her Iranian fiancé Mahdi’s cultural and religious beliefs. A disastrous pre-wedding party featuring a burlesque show has become a flashpoint. Fans are questioning Stevi’s empathy and commitment.
90 Day Fiancé: Stevi Accused of Ignoring Mahdi’s Discomfort!
The controversial joint pre-wedding party took a sharp turn when Mahdi became visibly uncomfortable. He eventually walked out of the burlesque show.
Stevi’s reaction, or lack thereof, infuriated many. “He literally gets up and walks off and she just stays saying ‘oh I hope he’s ok’ like girl that’s your fiancé go check on him,” one Reddit user exclaimed. Another fan labeled Stevi an “a-hole” for the choice of entertainment. They noted New Orleans offers “so many things to do” besides something she knew would upset Mahdi.
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90 Day Fiancé: TLC’s Meddling Hand?
Many viewers suspect production interference. “I think the burlesque show was booked by TLC to get a reaction from Madhi,” a popular comment stated.
Another fan agreed, “As usual, TLC booked the trashiest event available and got a front row seat.” While TLC might have planned the event, fans argue Stevi “knew he was uncomfortable” and should have handled it better.
90 Day Fiancé: Mahdi’s Struggle with American “Craziness”
Mahdi’s adjustment to American culture is a central theme. Some believe Mahdi “presented himself as a very progressive Muslim who couldn’t wait to experience the freedom and ‘craziness’ of America.”
Now, “that ‘craziness’ is in his face and he realizes he’s not as ‘progressive’ as he thought.” Others argue Stevi is pushing too hard, too fast. “Stevie needs to realize that being progressive in the Middle East would still be considered pretty conservative in America,” a fan explained.
Another urged, “Give the guy some space and time, geez.” One commenter put it bluntly: “Stevie is straight pushing him in the deep end then yelling ‘learn to swim!'”
“90 Day Fiancé: Stevi’s Commitment Questioned
The original Reddit poster highlighted a crucial point made by Mahdi’s friend, Saeed. He reportedly “nailed it when he told her Madhi was doing all the sacrificing, and she had yet to do any.” This sentiment resonates with many viewers.
They see Mahdi trying to adapt by drinking alcohol and eating pork. Yet, Stevi seems unwilling to meet him halfway on his core discomforts, such as nude paintings in their home or the burlesque show. “She looks like she’s good a silent treatment,” one fan speculated.
90 Day Fiancé: Unpacking Mahdi’s “Progressive” Stance
Some viewers question Mahdi’s selective adherence to his religious beliefs. “If they can break their religious rules to drink and have s*x why are they so worked up about some exposed breasts?” one commenter asked.
However, others defend Mahdi’s right to define his own boundaries. “People are able to define what they are and are not comfortable with. It’s called boundaries,” a fan stated.
Mahdi’s friend Saeed also drew criticism. Some labeled him “a major hater, just trying to stir the pot,” or even a “TLC producer plant.”
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