On Two Ts in a Pod, Bravo stars Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge had a candid chat with Erika Jayne, of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. She revealed her views on love and relationships.
After her highly publicized divorce from Tom Girardi, the reality star seems uninterested in walking down the aisle again. “I don’t think so,” Erika said when asked if she could see herself getting married again. “I don’t feel that that’s where I’m at.”
Erika Jayne and Tom Girardi, who were married for over two decades, split in 2020 amid a whirlwind of legal battles. Girardi was found guilty of wire fraud and embezzling millions, which put Erika in the middle of intense media scrutiny.
While Erika was never charged, the scandal clearly left its mark on her. She told her podcast hosts that, in her marriage, she felt controlled. She never wants to feel that again. “I revolt…my personality changes,” Erika admitted, showing how deeply her previous marriage affected her outlook on future relationships.
Erika Jayne Embraces Independence
Instead of focusing on dating, Erika Jayne has fully embraced her newfound independence. “I have a lot of work to do and I really just want to be successful on my own,” she said during the podcast. “For the first time, I have my own thing.”
The 52-year-old singer shared how important it feels for her to reclaim her life after the legal and emotional turmoil of the past few years. “This isn’t being 20 and being married to your husband and having a child…this is Erika out on her own doing it, and it feels good.”
With her music career on hold during her divorce and Girardi’s court case, Erika is now focused on getting back to her own passions.
Her drive to succeed without relying on a man is clear. “I want to see what else I can do because, if you’re involved with a man, and certainly with a powerful man, there’s a price to pay.
First off, any man,” Erika said. “Nothing is free in this world. And you know, the more powerful, the more wealthy, the more price.”
Erika’s Love Life Takes a Back Seat to Success
Erika Jayne’s marriage to Tom Girardi, who was once a highly successful attorney, showcased just how much control he had over her.
Fans of RHOBH witnessed Girardi’s dismissive behavior towards Erika in his brief appearances on the show. It’s no wonder that the Bravo star is hesitant to re-enter a similar dynamic. “I don’t want to pay the price of being with a man again,” she stated.
Erika values her freedom. Many fans admire this choice. They watched her journey through heartache, legal battles, and personal growth.
Erika and Sutton used to eat each other up 😩 #RHOBH pic.twitter.com/VPphUGyYPb
— SHEA FROM THE BAY (@SheaFromTheBay) May 16, 2024
Erika’s comments suggest she’s done with the traditional idea of marriage, at least for now.
While some fans might have hoped to see her in a wedding dress again, it’s clear that for Erika, her new love story is all about herself—and she’s happier for it.
With her ex-husband guilty of embezzling over $15 million from clients, Erika wants to close that chapter of her life for good.
