The latest season of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way is full of drama. It centers on couple Lily and Josh as they navigate their relationship in China. One major point of contention? Money.
In a recent episode, Josh found himself in hot water when his card was declined while attempting to pay for wedding expenses. The scene sparked a firestorm of accusations from fans. Many on Reddit speculated that Josh was trying to make Lily pay.
“Josh’s behavior is so suspicious,” one viewer wrote, suggesting that he could have restricted his card on purpose. Lily was visibly frustrated, and some fans are convinced Josh is taking advantage of her financially. But is that the full story?
90 Day Fiancé: Is Lily’s Love Language Really Money?
While Josh’s financial instability has raised eyebrows, there’s another theory floating around online.
Some viewers believe that Lily expresses love through gift-giving and spending money. “I’m starting to think that Lily equates spending with love,” a Redditor noted. They pointed out that Lily has often insisted on buying things for Josh, even if it stretched her finances.
Cultural expectations may also be at play. One commenter said, “In cultures like China, people often express love through acts of service or spending money, rather than words.” This may explain Lily’s generosity. Josh has not been enthusiastic about her spending.
However, it’s clear that money talk is a sore spot for Josh. He’s often quick to lash out whenever finances come up, making their arguments even more explosive.
Josh’s brother even tried to intervene, suggesting that Josh might be misunderstanding Lily’s intentions. But Josh wouldn’t listen, adding more tension to an already strained relationship.
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90 Day Fiancé: Lies, Gaslighting, and a Shocking Revelation
Just when it seemed things couldn’t get any worse, a massive bombshell dropped. Lily’s daughter, Vivian, has had her suspicions about Josh from the start, and her concerns seem more justified than ever.
In a shocking twist, Lily found that Josh had changed his profile picture to include another woman while he was still dating her. Josh claimed the woman was a “friend” who had passed away, but Lily found out that was a lie. The woman wasn’t dead, and the lie unraveled in a jaw-dropping confrontation.
Vivian called Josh out for gaslighting her mother, and fans couldn’t help but side with her. Josh attempted to turn the tables, accusing Lily of dating someone else first and saying his actions were justified.
But Lily wasn’t buying it, and neither was anyone else. Even Josh’s brother tried to reason with him, but Josh refused to take responsibility.
The emotional toll was clear, and Lily found herself reconsidering their entire future. “I can’t trust him,” she confessed, and for the first time, she seriously thought about calling off the wedding.
Yet, despite all the red flags, Josh remained adamant that they should stay together, refusing to acknowledge the damage he had caused.
Why did Josh wait til last minute to pay? Lily been telling him and us that she had no money because of the house since episode 1
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90 Day Fiancé: Will Lily and Josh’s Relationship Survive?
TLC’s preview for the upcoming 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way episode teases even more drama. The synopsis says Lily “has doubts” about her future with Josh.
It will discuss intimacy issues in the highly anticipated Tell-All episode. Meanwhile, a mystery couple is expected to announce a shocking breakup, and fans are already speculating that it could be Lily and Josh.
The situation has left viewers divided. Some think Lily is being manipulated and should leave Josh. Others blame cultural differences and misunderstandings.
One thing is certain: Lily’s daughter Vivian won’t stop fighting to protect her mom. Whether Josh can prove himself or if the couple’s issues will only get worse remains to be seen.
