If you thought the 90 Day Fiancé franchise had already hit peak dysfunction, think again. Viewers are fuming over Amani’s behavior this season, and Reddit is on fire with backlash. One top commenter didn’t hold back, saying, “This is the most insufferable person on the show (ok, tied with Greg).” Others quickly chimed in with agreement, calling her “manipulative,” “jealous,” and “a total narcissist.”
It’s not just her controlling energy. It’s the way she dominates scenes—constantly playing the victim, talking down to her husband Matt, and shifting blame like it’s an Olympic sport. “She leads her husband around by his nose while keeping his testicles in her purse,” one user wrote. Another added, “She’s got that man under complete lockdown.” Ouch.
90 Day Fiancé: The “Fourth Wife” Bombshell – Fans Say She Can’t Even Handle Two!
The moment that truly broke the internet? That preview clip where Amani casually drops, “What if we brought in a fourth?” Viewers were stunned. “Lady, you can’t even handle what you have. What are you doing?” Redditor Briguy28 exclaimed.
This revelation sent fans into a spiral of disbelief. “She’s always yelling and creating unnecessary drama,” someone else commented. “They aren’t cut out to be in a serious poly situation.” And perhaps most brutally: “She should call Robyn and Cody.” (Yes, the Sister Wives comparison was made.)
Even fans of ethical polyamory are cringing. “Before the first episode even finished, I turned to my two partners and said, ‘This bitch is going to make our lives harder for years to come,’” one longtime poly Redditor vented. “This is a cartoon version of toxic polyamory.”
90 Day Fiancé: Any Is Over It – Juice Boxes and All
But not everyone’s falling for Amani’s act. The third in this chaotic triangle, Any, seems increasingly detached—and fans noticed. One iconic moment that blew up on Reddit? Any sipping a juice box in the backseat while Amani launched into a teary meltdown. “I kind of loved when Any was just laughing back there,” wrote one fan. “She’s not letting them guilt-trip her.”
Others pointed out that Amani and Matt’s relationship is clearly one-sided. “It’s not okay for Any to love Amani more than Matt. But it’s okay the other way around?” another questioned. “This woman just wants two partners separately and control over both.”
To many, Any is simply trying to survive the madness. But others warned, “She needs to run far away from this couple. I wouldn’t be surprised if she goes missing one day.”
Unpopular opinion alert!
— Chiefsloverchick (@Chiefsloverchi1) April 21, 2025
I think Any is in love with Matt but told Amani she loves her more so she is less jealous
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90 Day Fiancé: Double Standards, Jealousy & Stripper Shaming – Fans Call BS
One of the biggest controversies? Amani’s judgmental stance on Any’s job as a stripper—despite meeting her in that exact setting. “Go fake cry in a corner again, I can’t with her,” one commenter said. Another blasted her hypocrisy: “She’s upset she has to go to work at the club? That’s where you met her!”
Things only got worse when sleuthing Redditors dug into the club’s background, claiming it’s more than just a strip joint. “It’s notorious for being a brothel,” one wrote. “Prostitution is for sure a big part of that business.”
Still, viewers were quick to defend Any. “She’s not safe to tell everyone she’s in a thruple like it’s nothing—especially in Mexico,” a fan warned. “They don’t f***ing get that.”
90 Day Fiancé: Fake Relationship for Clout? Viewers Say They’re Done
More than a few fans are convinced the entire storyline is fake. “These three are the worst actors on here,” one said. “They must think the audience is stupid.” Others slammed TLC directly: “They’re accelerating the enshittification of the series.”
Longtime viewers miss the old days of 90 Day Fiancé. “I used to watch when it was just regular ass people being regular ass crazy,” one fan mourned. “Now it’s just chaos for attention.”
And it’s wearing everyone down. “Two functions are used when these twits are on screen: Fast forward or mute,” a viewer joked. Another added, “Watching them is exhausting.”
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