From his first moment on 90 Day Fiancé, fans had strong opinions about Adnan Abdelfattah’s demeanor. He was with his wife, Tigerlily Taylor. Many labeled Adnan as controlling. His strict rules and traditional views often clashed with Tigerlily.
His behavior didn’t sit well with viewers, particularly those who saw Tigerlily push back against his expectations. Adnan’s dominant personality, coupled with his cultural expectations, has been a point of contention since day one.
But in a surprising twist, it seems Tigerlily has had a change of heart. The fiery reality star recently showed a softer side. She defended her husband’s leadership and celebrated her choice to embrace submission.
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90 Day Fiancé: Tigerlily Taylor Defends Submission as Strength
Tigerlily Taylor’s recent social media update took fans by surprise. Speaking about her dynamic with Adnan Abdelfattah, she shared:
“A woman’s submission to a masculine man is not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of her feeling safe and trusting of his leadership.”
For many, this sentiment was unexpected, given Tigerlily’s previous conflicts with Adnan on the show. Her post not only defended her perspective but also sparked significant debate among her followers.
Unfazed by the backlash, Tigerlily doubled down on her stance. Addressing her critics, she clarified:
“My advice is only for the girlies requesting tips on being more feminine.”
This comment struck a chord with fans who felt Tigerlily was alienating a portion of her audience.

90 Day Fiancé: Drawing Lines Between “Feminine” and “Masculine” Women
Tigerlily Taylor’s statement didn’t end there. She went further, calling out what she described as “loud-mouthed, masculine women.” She criticized those who she felt were hijacking a conversation not meant for them, saying:
“To the women in my DMs commenting against this—you’re not who I’m talking to. This is for women who want to embrace their femininity.”
The comments added fuel to an already heated debate, with many fans taking sides. Some praised Tigerlily for her honesty. Others said she spread old stereotypes.
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