The transformation of Shekinah Garner has left fans stunned—and not in a good way. She was once admired for her confidence and straightforwardness. Now, people call her controlling, selfish, and superficial. And her physical transformation? Equally polarizing.
A flood of comments erupted after side-by-side photos from her Millionaire Matchmaker days were compared to her current 90 Day Fiancé look. “She was beautiful before all the work,” wrote one fan. Others added, “She looks like a wax figure now,” and “Soon she’ll be a carbon copy of Darcey and Stacey.”
While some defended her right to choose her appearance—“Whatever makes her happy and feel good”—others felt the procedures made her “look manly” or “like a poor man’s Kim Kardashian.” One particularly sharp viewer joked, “If she stops now, she’ll still look human.”
The consensus? Shekinah may still be beautiful, but she no longer looks like herself. “That’s not even the same person,” read one viral comment. Another summed it up in five words: “Before was better. Way better.”
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Shekinah’s behavior in recent episodes has sparked an unexpected wave of sympathy—for Sarper. Yes, that Sarper. Turkey’s former alpha male is now viewed as a patient, manipulated partner. Many see him as trapped in a carefully planned scheme.
“She literally and figuratively changed,” one Redditor wrote, summing up the dramatic shift in dynamics. Viewers now argue Shekinah has subjected Sarper to a relentless stream of tests, criticisms, and setups. “She’s dragging him through the mud just to prove something to herself or her family,” said another. “She’s like a walking red flag.”
The couple’s bizarre living arrangement has especially fueled the backlash. Fans were floored to learn that Sarper, who relocated to be with Shekinah, isn’t even allowed to cook in the kitchen—or be present when she sees clients. “So he has to disappear? That’s insane,” one commenter raged. “Even if he wanted to stay upstairs, it’s a loft. There’s no door.”
Many called the setup a bait-and-switch. “She tricked him,” said one viewer. “If roles were reversed and he pulled this in Turkey, people would be screaming abuse.” Another added, “She’s got him wandering the streets with nowhere to go. Who does that to someone they ‘love’?”
90 Day Fiancé: Fans Drag Shekinah Garner for “Plastic Priorities” and “Fake Feminism”
Social media users didn’t hold back. Critics accused Shekinah of prioritizing appearances over partnership. “All that money on plastic surgery, but she lives in her workspace,” one wrote. “Spend more on a home and less on your lips.”
Others took aim at her treatment of Sarper and other women. “She’s got a real hatred toward other women,” a user wrote. “She’s a misogynist hiding behind a feminist aesthetic.” Another noted, “She emasculates him constantly, but cries victim the second he pushes back.”
The reaction online has been harsh. “She doesn’t just look fake—she acts fake,” someone observed. “Everything is a performance.” One especially biting comment said, “She’s turning into Stacey and Darcey, but without the charm.”
And while Shekinah continues to post glam selfies and motivational captions, fans aren’t buying it. “There is no outfit that can hide a lack of self-confidence,” a commenter stated. Another simply wrote, “She destroyed herself… now she matches her personality.”

90 Day Fiancé: Viewers Demand Shekinah Garner Exit the Show
The backlash has escalated to the point where fans are begging producers to cut Shekinah from the cast. “She’s unbearable to watch,” said one. “Click. Channel change.” Another comment read, “Can I block Shekinah’s very existence from life?”
The storyline has become so unbelievable that many suspect heavy producer manipulation. “The Sarper redemption arc and Shekinah villain edit? Completely scripted,” one user theorized. “It’s just drama for drama’s sake.”
Still, some fans expressed concern. “She’s sabotaging everything,” said one commenter. “How long before Sarper finally snaps?” Others aren’t even convinced the couple will make it to marriage. “I don’t see them lasting at all,” a user admitted. “This is a disaster waiting to happen.”
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